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#23637

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-->I made the mistake of sleeping with a freshly divorced lady off of tinder and she won't leave me alone now. Texts and calls me all the time. The novelty wore off and now I don't know how to end this without coming off like a fucking dickhead

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  1. It'll leave u breathless, or with a nasty scar.

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    1. Sounds like OP has a long list of ex-lovers who will tell you that he's insane.

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    2. @2a Starbucks lovers

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    3. but does he have a blank space, baby, where he'd write my name?

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  2. Cause she knows he loves the players. And she likes the game.

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  3. Good lucky buddy

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  4. How will you come off as a dick? Just be honest and empathetic. If she feels bad, it doesn't mean you're a dick as long as you're honest and don't treat her poorly. If you're just on Tinder for casual sex, there's nothing wrong with that and she should understand.

    I've had guys assume I was more interested than I actually was and they ended up lying to me to make me feel better when they could've just been honest because we were on the same page about just wanting sex.

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    1. I won't stop swiping until I find you ༼♥ل͜♥༽

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    2. @5b. I've stopped using Tinder.

      I tried to have no strings attached sex with 2 guys and they both just constantly lied to me because they believed I secretly wanted to be their girlfriend. I definitely did not and I even explicitly stated this. I asked them why they thought this and they both said that every single other girl they tried to have a a fuck buddy relationship with eventually caught feelings and tried to turn it into a real relationship. So basically, no matter what I said or did, they would only judge me based on their experience with other girls.

      I'm not super into one night stands and I don't wanna try another fuck buddy thing after those 2. People aren't willing to be honest with me despite how insanely straightforward I am with them.

      This video sums up my frustrations very well:
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-auflI5Gyk

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    3. That's too bad :p Sooooo, because of two guys you're just not going to have sex?

      It's definitely one of the most frustrating things in the world when you say one thing and people assume you meant something totally different.

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    4. I dunno. I'm just not very optimistic or excited about the idea of a fuck buddy anymore so I'm not willing to put in the effort to actively pursue it.

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    5. @5b/5d: I totally understand what you're saying. I definitely think having a fuck buddy takes two people with a conscious understanding that it is purely for the purpose of sex and won't be anything more. I find that the one way I limit feelings is to try to maintain at least two fuck buddies at one given time since you don't entirely miss one person's appendages, assets, or behaviours, hence the mind's attention is divided (seems like the desire to date from fuck buddies grows as one gets comfortable with the other and grows fond of them). Fuck buddies work really well when both people are on the same page, so I'm sorry you had such a negative experience. But if anything, try something with this mindset I just shared? It's working beautifully for me so far.

      If you have tried this out, please ignore everything I just said. I'm still sorry that you had a negative experience.

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    6. I support fuck buddies. They have a certain job to do. I guess i havent grown out of that phase yet. But im sure when you're older having a family will make a difference.

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    7. @5e: I'm confused... I never had an issue with growing attached to either of the two guys.

      My problem was that they both assumed I wanted to be their girlfriend (even after I said I didn't) and they lied to and manipulated me based on that assumption to make me feel better about not being in a relationship even though I didn't want one in the first place.

      That's why I want OP to be honest with this woman instead of making assumptions about what she wants and making decisions for her based on that.

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  5. Have you brought her over to your place? Have you driven her in your vehicle, if you have one? If not, just block her ass off your phone. Problem solved!

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  6. or maybe just don't have sex before marriage

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    1. I don't know if 7 is being sarcastic or not, but I agree (unsarcastically).

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    2. This is the correct answer. This is what you get for indulging in promiscuity and fornication. Nothing but trouble

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    3. Trouble! Trouble! Trouble!

      Ah! Ah!

      Trouble! Trouble! Trouble!

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  7. Imagine if the genders were reversed. I bet people would be freaking out right now if a divorced man wouldn't stop contacting a young woman

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