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#23410

OMG:

More males need to be like this in a relationship instead of being pathetic, pigs, pretending, and passively aggressive. 

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-22553/after-16-years-with-my-wife-it-still-feels-like-the-honeymoon-phase-heres-why.html


MOD'S NOTE: I propose this problem is partly a product of the patriarchy.

28 comments

  1. It goes for both genders - not sure why you're singling out males.

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    1. It's 2015 and feminism has taken over. The man is responsible for the woman's happiness, and the woman is responsible for her own happiness. Women don't care nor expect men to be happy anymore.

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  2. Holy fuck that guy is fucking beta. He does all this for his wife with no reciprocation.

    Don't be like this guy. His wife probably gets dicked nightly, and not by him. They even separated for half a year, thats girl code for "I'm bored of my husband so I'll go out and get some dick while hubby treats me extra well to win my love back". This guy is so far down the rabbit hole. Don't get used like this guy.

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    1. I was anxiously waiting for someone to point this out. This plus the feminism comment are so true. This guy might've gotten a unicorn, but is that 5% really worth holding out for? IMHO, not at all. Be a man, do whatever you want, be assertive and confident and for god's sake, take care of yourself. Don't buy into this woman-on-a-pedestal BS being sold nowadays.

      #meninism

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    2. I really can't understand the way women think and how they can get away with shit like that. Can we even consider them human beings? I don't feel any guilt lying, cheating and manipulating women, because in my experience they have no morals. They are like animals who act on emotions.

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    3. 2.a here again. Yeah bud, women seem to be heavily influenced by their emotions at that current state in time. I stopped considering their morals because I came to the exact same conclusion as you did pretty much. I mean, they have morals, but their upholding of them is seriously dependent on how invested they are in you, which again, proves your point haha.

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    4. 2 here

      >women seem to be heavily influenced by their emotions at that current state in time

      That's why this guy is fucked. A woman doesn't care if you spent the last 5 years treating her like a queen. Hell, she doesn't even notice.

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    5. You "people" are disgusting misogynist pigs frustrated because you can't get any. You have the mentality of future rapists who women as objects made for your sexual pleasure. I hope you all end up in prison where you can't influence society with your hatred anymore. Shame on you (@2, @2a, @2b)

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    6. @2d. Exactly! I learned this the hard way too many times, and keep making it a point with other dudes in the same boat. Point it out to most ladies, and you get a shitstorm of arguments that I frankly could not care less about. Additionally, it's in human nature to dwell on the one negative, so I guess the secret is...don't fuck up, or fuck up and don't apologize.
      @2e.
      I actually do get some...it's up to you if you want to believe me. At the end of the day, consent is always key to anything, but given this third wave feminism crap, do you expect us to think otherwise? It's practically manhate for men. You let your hamster wheel keep spinning and find a way to put the blame on us. I'll stick to what I know and what's proven by my own trials. I freely work with ladies and whatnot, but I've learned enough to state freely that you can only trust what they do, not what they say...reason being that its again, dependent on how they feel around/about you. And tbh, even the sex is not really appealing anymore, so I just started friendzoning them myself...I'm much better independent anyhow. Funny how you say we have hatred when we're just revealing how your kind works. We won't end up in prison...reason being is because we know that some chicks just are not worth it, even for sex.

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    7. 2f sounds like a fine young man I'd like to go out on a date with. <3

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    8. 2f here. Given the troll nature of OMGUW, with the exception of me in this case, I'm just going to take 2G as a compliment. If 2G is actually serious, we'd have to evaluate attraction on the date...if that's a go, everything else does not seem as important (I discovered this pattern as well, and it's pretty darn true).

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    9. 2i here. I just want to say that I am overjoyed that more and more young men are waking up to the ridiculous entitlement mentality of the modern female. Seriously don't make the mistakes our fathers made. And 2e seems to think that any man who will not wait on a woman hand and foot is a "misogynist" or a "rapist". Anyone who advocates, directly or indirectly, for servitude is a complete and utter totalitarian.

      Wake up guys.

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  3. idk man... being around that guy for 16 years is probably nauseating.

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  4. This guy lives on Maui and delivered bread for a living most of their marriage. His opinion is moot.

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  5. It's really not all that complicated. Find someone who accepts you and values the things that you value. Live your life for their sake, and trust that they will live their lives for yours. Forgive their mistakes, even when they hurt you, because you'll make mistakes sometimes that hurt them.

    Even a simple, quiet, paltry life can be a fulfilling life well-lived, when you live it for the good of people you care about. But being a good judge of character matters - don't surround yourselves with people who will leech off of your kindness. Whether it's friends or lovers, you should both see roughly the same things in life as important and valuable.

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    1. Shhhh. Common sense on this forum is a no-no. Most of these kids have never been in a relationship.

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    2. stfu 5a and stop trying to be funny, cuz u r not

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    3. I dunno 5b, I didn't think it was funny, just true.

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    4. 5, that was beautiful. You need to write a book.

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    5. 5b yeah so you don't think 5a is funny either i'm glad we agree

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  6. i think this guy's wife wrote that for him

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  7. all u dumb pig headed retards are saying is that being caring and putting in efforts like that guy has won't do shit because women are irrational and animalistic as in they are emotional and impulsive

    no wonder u dumb fucks have shitty relationships

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    1. 2A again. Being the shit disturber that somewhat continued this thread, I feel a moral obligation to defend this post and all of us who share my viewpoint. I must confirm that we did not come from shitty relationships. Many of us have had loving relationships in the past, but that was so long ago, such as in highschool, where the pond was a lot smaller and the feminism movement was not so thoroughly impregnated into the modern cultural fabric. This movement we share is about growing and adapting to the times, seeing the way that ladies behave and utilizing that to our advantage. To be honest, you can be a completely caring guy and still get the girl, but at the end of the day, you still employ some of the same theories and knowledge that we adhere to, though at a much lower success rate I'd argue. It all depends on if you want to be castrated and emasculated, or retain the manliness that has been taken away from you. The choice is yours. I've made mine and haven't looked back at all.

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    2. 2a/7a, I'm going to try and give you as balanced an answer as possible (I'm 5, not 7). The feminism movement isn't what creates these shitty situations you describe - shitty people do that. That's true on both sides - and the balance of scales differs from person to person and situation to situation - but generally it's *some* mix of:

      -Men with shitty outdated worldviews about needing to protect women from the world/be their knight in shining armour who protects them, but then gets upset when a woman won't date or have sex with him despite the fact he's "soooo" nice; and

      -Women who've co-opted feminism as a personal ideology that they use to attack anything in the world they feel is unfair to them, which soon turns into perpetual misandry.

      It *should* go without saying - but I know it doesn't - but "not all" applies to both groups. I'm a man, and I like to think I'm not a misogynistic asshole, and that my friends aren't either (though it's important - no matter who you are - to think about the things you say. Sometimes I say/do something, and it isn't until I think about it that I realize it's actually kind of a crappy attitude to say). But likewise, women - including feminist women - are not necessarily entitled crappy people. In fact, in my experience most of them aren't (but then, I really like most people, just... categorically).

      "Feminism tempered with a humanist bent" is the approach I like best. Believe in people - all people - value their free agency, treat them as an end and not a means, and look for situations (social, economic, and cultural/historical) that put one group in a position of power over another. And don't disregard the role that gender has to play in doing that, and how certain views have been socialized over the centuries.

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    3. 7a what manliness?

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  8. @7B. Valid reasoning. Although I do agree that not all apply to both groups, I've found it to be true more times than not, although this is probably a byproduct of the types of people I choose to associate with/choose to pursue. I'm an overthinker by nature, and I found that caring about what other people thought made me care too much about their well-being more so than mine. We all have our own beliefs and principles that we adhere to, which we all come to base on our own experiences. I personally have learned to never give people the benefit of the doubt and take everything with a grain of salt because well...people never fail to disappoint. I still will stick to my approach as I expect you to stick to yours, though I do like your wording of it all. I should enforce that much of my negativity is aimed towards third wave feminists, which have totally changed the original goal of feminism, which was equality in the first place. Gender will always play a role, but we must also acknowledge that both sexes have their strengths that makes each unique. Additionally, although you'd like to think that you're not a misogynist, your outward perception is heavily dependent on how people interpret what you say. Anyone can still hold on to your words and use them against you, which has happened to all of us at least once.

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  9. joke's on you I'll never have a gf

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  10. OP is a tool. Imagine if someone posted the same type of language generalizing females. Go fuck yourself.

    The previous commenter is right. Women are calculating, ego driven and superficial as fuck. They just don't get called out on it.

    Meanwhile you generalize all guys while you keep impossibly high standards and won't even give 80% of them a date before the generalizing begins.

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