OMG:
My girlfriend found an old usb of mine and went through it. She found random clips of Ia past ex and I having sex. She's now furious with me about keeping it. She went through my room helping me clean it and found it in a box that I haven't touched in ages and now is accusing me of keeping it and "treasuring" it. I honestly had forgotten all about the videos and now I am in deep shit with my gf...
Sounds like she has major trust issues. That's not a good sign.
ReplyDeleteDude that's not trust issues. ANY girl would be hysterical. How would YOU feel if your gf had sex tapes of her and her ex. OP you are F U C K E D
ReplyDeleteI think it'd be understandable if any girl was upset but "hysterical"? lmao, nah. Op has a perfectly good excuse (whether it's true or not :P) and if he deletes it off the usb there is no reason for his gf to continue to be upset, imo.
DeleteIf anything, op should be upset that his gf went through it in such detail. :/
Good. I hope she dumps your ass. Who keeps old sex tapes around? In fact, who makes fucking sex tapes anyways?
ReplyDeletereminds me of "I origins" great movie
ReplyDeleteTell her you wanna make a video with her to replace the old one
ReplyDeleteShe will love it trust me
Tell her the truth and that if she can't handle the truth she can leave.
ReplyDeletewhy did you make sex tapes in the first place?
ReplyDeleteThe ex was freaky like that. All her idea
DeleteThen be honest with her and tell her that. Stress that you'd forgotten that stuff even existed, and throw it out. And then address the issue of trust that this all really comes down to. She doesn't feel like you're still carrying a torch for someone else - make her see that you're not.
ReplyDeleteYou are suppose to upload them after you break up...
ReplyDeleteFuck off
DeleteIf that happened to my boyfriend and I, I honestly might react the same way as your girlfriend but I would probably apologize after I've calmed down and realized that my S.O. probably didn't realize he had it. But at the same time, I wouldn't be too happy seeing my boyfriend fucking another girl even if it was in the past and there's nothing you can do to really save that. Just remind her that she's the one you like/love now (and maybe even tell her why you broke up with your ex) to reassure your girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteHope she can rationally think it through. Good luck!
My concern right now would be whether or not she was angry enough to post them.
ReplyDeleteHow did you persuade your ex to let you make a video? I'd love to have videos of my gf (she goes to UofT and we only get together once every two weeks). It's be nice to have something to look at during the dry spells.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, it was her idea but it took time for her to get to that point. At first she wouldn't even send me nudes but after she lost a bet she had to send me nudes everyday for a week. She was into it after that and would send them whenever I asked. Then she started sending me clips of her and then after sometime she asked me if I wanted to film us
DeleteWhy has the issue that she went looking through your USB not been addressed..
ReplyDeleteSame issue with my bf. I found his sex videos with his ex, and not only one ex, A LOT OF THEM . and some photos with ex too. When I first found out the videos I was so mad so I deleted them, months later I found the exact same files that had the same videos that I've deleted, it turned out that he recovered them from the garbage bin...btw the file was about 20G. I was going to dump him but he promised me he would delete them and never recover again. Thanks to him, I am so good with computers/cell phones now. If your not going to get back with your ex, why the fuck would you keep that? Just clear your past before you get a gf.
ReplyDeletethanks for reminding me how fucked up monogammy is.
Deletenever again lol