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Updated on Wednesday, September 23

#21307

OMG: I was in love and in a 2-year long relationship with a bitch who crushed my self-esteem, cheated on me, dumped me and lied about my life behind my back. Now I feel nauseous every time I am trying to talk to a girl. I am still heterosexual and I still have sexual urges. I just hate women too much to bother. Anyone has been through this?

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  1. It's a sucky place to be in, and hopefully your past experiences don't completely destroy your worldview before you get through it.

    It sucks that your last relationship ended so badly. And it's OKAY that you're angry about it - GET angry, be upset! But don't let yourself believe that what you went through with this one woman is what all women are like.

    Focus on making friends for now - both male and female - before you start dating again. Learn to open up again and trust people in all sorts of small ways, and eventually you'll be ready to date again. I recommend that the next person you date be someone you know well and already trust BEFORE starting a relationship though.

    As far as sexual needs are concerned though... that's a little tougher. I feel for you there, bro, I've been in the same situation myself. Find yourself some good porn, perhaps? If all you need is sex, maybe get a Tinder account and find other people there who are just looking for casual sex (without emotional commitment).

    It does get better, it will get better. But it'll take some time, and a lot of forcing yourself to connect with other people/forced self-analysis before you get there. Best of luck.

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    1. 1's got your back op. Move on. Take time for yourself. Don't blame all fuckin women. And make sure you heal first, don't drag these bad feelings into another relationship and make another person suffer for a past person's dickery.

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    2. You guys give fucking terrible advice.

      If you want to date someone you can truly trust, turn gay and date a man.

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    3. Yo, 1b, just because you hate women so much you rather suck dick, doesn't mean the rest of us hate them

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  2. Try being too scared to pursue a partner because you have a genital condition that is being treated and will take months to clear up, yet being stupidly horny. Oh, and masturbation makes it worse. That's where I am now.

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  3. Don't listen to anyone else.

    Swallow the red pill and become a man. Now's your chance since youve seen a glimmer of the light.

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    1. Yep, the cure to getting hurt is always to become more manipulative and less compassionate (rolls eyes).

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    2. When the rules are made for you to lose, why bother following them?

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    3. Lol get fucked 3. Or don't cause you're incel.

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    4. I'm confused...OP already hates and distrusts all women. That's all the red pill is.

      BTW, you red pill asshats make it so much easier to be a regular guy. Thanks for elevating the value of just being a good person and treating other people with respect.

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    5. No no, you got it wrong.
      Trusting women leads to hating them (because it eventually fucks you over).

      Red pill makes you understand women and teaches types of situations it is appropriate to distrust women in.

      You think anybody even knows how much I identify with red pill truths? Of course nobody does, I'd get crucified. I seem like a regular guy, I'm just less of a pussy.

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    6. You don't have to broadcast this stuff for it to have an effect. Red Pill guys treat women like they're some other species, manipulate them, and put on an act when they're around. Then you get dumped because you're neurotic, self-centered, and fake and once again its a woman's fault.

      What actually bothers me though is that everything you guys seem to want is a meek, obedient, servile woman who has never touched another man's dick. All these dudes have gf's and it makes me sad thinking of someone with low self-esteem putting up with this shit and thinking that's what all men are like. Everyone on red pill sites talks about self-improvement, but all they seem to want to do is put half the human race down to make themselves feel taller.

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    7. 3e, I wonder what awful thing must have happened to make you so utterly cynical. I can't imagine going through life with a worldview that is convinced that trusting women must eventually fuck you over....

      I mean Jesus. That's no way to live.

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  4. I guess we're all taking your word for it. No way this guy got too attached and took a regular breakup way too hard. My advice, get over yourself. People get broken up with all the time.

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    1. I dunno 4, everyone's different. Telling OP to disregard his emotional pain because there are other people out there who go through it all the time doesn't seem like the right approach to me.

      But OP should make sure he doesn't withdraw from other people. When you actually interact with people a lot, and share your pain with them, you start to realize that there are lots of people out there who understand what you're going through, and then healing starts to happen.

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