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#20885

OMG: I'm a brown third year student and am unable to find someone to date. There's many reasons for this.


-I'm not attracted to my own race at all. I'm primarily attracted to white people. I don't think white girls find me attractive at all.
-I'm in ECE which is pretty intense with the workload and so, don't have much time to "get out there".
-I don't drink or party and so, I don't go to bars or social gatherings to meet girls.
-I have essentially no exposure to girls due to my program of study (where most people I work with are guys.
-When I go to the gym or library, there are plenty of very attractive girls but the context is too random. You can't just randomly ask someone out unless you've come to somehow know them a little bit.

Any suggestions?

31 comments

  1. Haha man this is the greatest post I've ever read. You literally face the exact same problems so made other dudes face at UW in your exact position but it's almost like you've come to these realizations about your predicament in total independence or exposure to literally thousands of others who have said the same exact thing. It's like you've discovered something thousands of other people knew about and experienced before you and wrote about it in such a precise and matter of fact way. You're basically the Christopher Columbus of nerdy Waterloo engineers who can't get laid haha. But srs if you want advice, it's not THAT difficult it just takes a little persistent and also its better if it's someone you actually like and there's a connection between you two, basically just meet someone who you like and connect with them be spontaneous and persistent but not too desperate, play some games make them laugh have fun do fun stuff with them and then you will start dating

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    1. Reference to Christopher Columbus on point, I lol'd.

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    2. fucking lol.

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  2. Work on point 3. You don't actually have to drink, but going out helps. No one is going to care if you're not drinking... One of my friends rarely drinks which is great if you need a DD.

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  3. You can always try online dating. I wasn't the clubbing type and, for a large part of my life, I was far too shy to join clubs or to pursue anyone romantically. I met my current boyfriend on OKC and we've been together for three years.

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  4. I've been pursued.

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  5. You're brown, you're not going to get a white girl. Just have to face that fact and move on I guess :/

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    1. Not necessarily true. As a white girl, I was super attracted to a brown fellow before realizing that he was a bit of a man whore.

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    2. lmfao 5 you're an idiot... white girl here, brown boys are gorgeous <3 (I've got some friends who are about this as well!)

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    3. I wouldn't date a Hindu, but I would be willing to date virtually any other kind of brown guy. Hinduism is like my great grandmother, its fun to look at from a distance, its stories are legitimately interesting, there are some great holidays in there, but holy fuck do not want sleeping in my bed.

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    4. Brown guy here... have had my fair share of white girls. Honestly girls are just attracted to confidence and as long as you don't look like shrek you're fine. Just be normal and fun and you should be good to pick up any girl imo.

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    5. 5.a lol, judging someone based on promiscuity. Get some self confidence.

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  6. i'm down with the swirl lovin

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  7. God damn why are there so many people who think that races act as an entire unit if they do or don't like someone?? I like someone based on my attraction to them as an individual, colour or ethnicity does not matter. If they're a cool person and sexy in some way then it's good to go.

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  8. OP, are you a tiger?

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  9. I wish I were white

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  10. Here's your problem OP: you're actually a douchebag.

    Don't take it the wrong way, I don't think you intend to be one.... you're somewhat of a "benign" douchebag. Here's why:

    -You are treating "white girls" as a single entity with hive mind (If I were a white girl and found out you though like that, I would not want to date you)

    -Subtly trying to flex your engineering cock

    -You're being a bit whiny and a bit entitled. If you are not having any social interaction as you say, why should girls randomly flock to you?

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    1. I agree. You're treating girls like a unit instead of understanding that each girl is different regardless of race.

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    2. I wouldn't say he's trying to flex his engineering cock, ece legitimately has an insane workload, moreso than other disciplines. Not that it's an excuse to not go out and do things.

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  11. Why the fuck does everyone non-white at Waterloo have a white person fetish? I'm South Asian, I wanted to find someone who speaks my language and who I can relate to, but all the girls I know that speak Hindi/Urdu/Punjabi are crawling over white dudes. On the flip side of the coin, we have dudes like you that won't consider any girls that aren't white. I'm sure this happens with the other non-white races too.

    Why?? What is it that is so deficient about people that aren't white?

    I so mad. :(

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    1. the majority are like u. that is why there is little race mixing. it's sad.

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  12. Study hard now, graduate from your excellent program, get a good job, and I can promise you that many women will be attracted to the stability that you will be able to provide as a husband for your future family. Just be patient for now.

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    1. This. Is. My. Life

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    2. If you're doing this you're really taking a risk and will almost definitely going to have to use online dating to meet someone. There's always a chance you'll meet someone amazing but in University you're swimming in a small aquarium of people of similar age and socioeconomic status. Yes, there's many more fish in the sea, but its also quite a bit bigger that our little waterloo.

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    3. Thats what I was told in high school too, but its not necessarily true :'(

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  13. To op: I think that u should be more open minded about brown girls. Try to speak with more confidence next time

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  14. Don't approach the scariest chick on the block and ur good.

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  15. Where the hell do you find these brown girls that are into white guys? 'cause I can't find any.

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