Why is it the bulk
of women who have immigrated to Canada are the nicest, most generous
people I've ever met. While the bulk of women who have been born in
Canada are crazy, insane, fucked up bitches?
You're 100% right OP. You don't have bad luck as #1 said. I dated quite a few girls, and watched my friends go through shit relationship after shit relationship until I finally just gave up on Canadian girls. There's a serious lack of substance in this culture when it comes to everyone, but the women have gotten the brunt of it. Anyway, long story short, I had given up.. but then I met my now-wife. She's from Russia, came here when she was 8 - so she wasn't too brainwashed by all the crap here.
My suggestion, as I tell all of my male friends who are single or in bad relationships: Don't date white girls unless they're from outside of North America and UK.
That's why a lot of Caucasian guys end up with Asian friends and girlfriends. It's not some stupid fetish thing, which a lot of people assume...it's the fact they have a much lower bullshit quotient. The two closest friends I've made at school are both girls, one originally from the Phillipines and the other from China.
Case in point, at some point I made a stupid joke that my Chinese friend didn't care for. A short time later, she said 'I'm pissed off at you..that joke you made, I really I didn't appreciate it.' I was a bit taken aback at first, but when I thought about it it occurred me that it wasn't appropriate so I looked in the eye, told her I was genuinely sorry, and promised to choose my words more carefully. DONE. FINISHED. She said her piece, I offered a sincere apology (which was warranted). No sullen faces, grumpiness, or passive aggressive bullshit. The whole 'thing' came and went in five minutes. With the average Canadian woman that would have been a three day ordeal.
I think it depends on what generation Canadian they are. I find most first generations are extremely kind and hardworking because they watched their parents go through the same immigrating here. After that, other generations do not appreciate their life because they did not know better. It depends on what values parents teach. I find your generalization of ALL Canadian born women to be false. Let's not get started on the male Canadian stereotypes.
so like you do realize that generalizing a large group of people is de-humanizing and a lazy way of thinking? and that people are individuals and putting them into broad-stroke categories speaks more about you than about them? seriously. i pity any woman you date, canada-born or otherwise, if this is the way you think about them.
Fuck you OP. You can't let a couple girls define an entire culture. I can assure you it goes both ways, I've dated some fucking vapid immigrants, but I have also had the pleasure of dating great women both immigrant and several generations Canadian.
You need to learn to love everyone, and not be such a cunt.
Hahaha More Culturally insensitive? Maybe Ignorant and not self aware? Bitch please. This sounds like a first year from Toronto that can't find anywhere outside of the GTA on a map. A "chocolate milk comes from brown cows" type of enlightened young student.
Wow, us Canadian women must be perfect for you then, because you sound like a crazy, insane, fucked up bitch. Plus zero substance and a high level of ignorance. Based on your post I am delighted that you have already removed yourself from the Canadian girl dating pool because, trust me, we aren't interested.
I've found the opposite. You must just have bad luck.
ReplyDeleteRemember not to feed the trolls :)
ReplyDeleteYou're 100% right OP. You don't have bad luck as #1 said.
ReplyDeleteI dated quite a few girls, and watched my friends go through shit relationship after shit relationship until I finally just gave up on Canadian girls. There's a serious lack of substance in this culture when it comes to everyone, but the women have gotten the brunt of it.
Anyway, long story short, I had given up.. but then I met my now-wife. She's from Russia, came here when she was 8 - so she wasn't too brainwashed by all the crap here.
My suggestion, as I tell all of my male friends who are single or in bad relationships: Don't date white girls unless they're from outside of North America and UK.
you sound much more reasonable than OP - I'd be interested in hearing what you mean by "lack of substance"
DeleteThat's why a lot of Caucasian guys end up with Asian friends and girlfriends. It's not some stupid fetish thing, which a lot of people assume...it's the fact they have a much lower bullshit quotient. The two closest friends I've made at school are both girls, one originally from the Phillipines and the other from China.
DeleteCase in point, at some point I made a stupid joke that my Chinese friend didn't care for. A short time later, she said 'I'm pissed off at you..that joke you made, I really I didn't appreciate it.' I was a bit taken aback at first, but when I thought about it it occurred me that it wasn't appropriate so I looked in the eye, told her I was genuinely sorry, and promised to choose my words more carefully. DONE. FINISHED. She said her piece, I offered a sincere apology (which was warranted). No sullen faces, grumpiness, or passive aggressive bullshit. The whole 'thing' came and went in five minutes. With the average Canadian woman that would have been a three day ordeal.
that's how we like 'em
ReplyDeleteBecause you're a selective misogynist.
ReplyDeleteLet me clarify... your question should read "why are women crazy"
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on what generation Canadian they are. I find most first generations are extremely kind and hardworking because they watched their parents go through the same immigrating here. After that, other generations do not appreciate their life because they did not know better. It depends on what values parents teach. I find your generalization of ALL Canadian born women to be false. Let's not get started on the male Canadian stereotypes.
ReplyDeleteI've found women who've immigrated to Canada are more mature and have less of a sense of entitlement compared to some Canadian-born.
ReplyDeleteso like you do realize that generalizing a large group of people is de-humanizing and a lazy way of thinking? and that people are individuals and putting them into broad-stroke categories speaks more about you than about them? seriously. i pity any woman you date, canada-born or otherwise, if this is the way you think about them.
ReplyDeleteSJW
Deletei know i'm supposed to take that as an insult but i'm just not feeling it.
DeleteIt means social justice warrior.
Deleteimplied in 9a's comment was "fuck off back to reddit". seriously, fuck off back to reddit.
DeleteFuck you OP. You can't let a couple girls define an entire culture. I can assure you it goes both ways, I've dated some fucking vapid immigrants, but I have also had the pleasure of dating great women both immigrant and several generations Canadian.
ReplyDeleteYou need to learn to love everyone, and not be such a cunt.
it kind of depends on where you grew up. if you're from a small town, people tend to be ignorant and not self aware.
ReplyDeleteGeneralisers gonna generalize.
DeleteHahaha
DeleteMore Culturally insensitive? Maybe
Ignorant and not self aware? Bitch please. This sounds like a first year from Toronto that can't find anywhere outside of the GTA on a map. A "chocolate milk comes from brown cows" type of enlightened young student.
(they want a visa)
ReplyDeletei was thinking the same thing..
DeleteMaybe because you speak ESL?
ReplyDeleteWow, us Canadian women must be perfect for you then, because you sound like a crazy, insane, fucked up bitch. Plus zero substance and a high level of ignorance. Based on your post I am delighted that you have already removed yourself from the Canadian girl dating pool because, trust me, we aren't interested.
ReplyDeleteShut up and eat my pussy!
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