She went on about how she's
lost interest in waiting and wanted to just experience sex. She asked me
to take it. I find her attractive and all but it was a request that
came out of left field and I blanked. She told me to think about it,
that'd it'd be NSA and meaningless. Normally I wouldn't stop and think
about having sex, as a dude I'm always game. This time it just felt
really high stakes since she's been waiting for the one and now just
wants to throw that away. Didn't really know what to think
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Don't do it! As a lady who thought she'd never have sex, my first time was with a guy that I didn't love and that didn't really care about me. It was fine at the time (there's nothing like having sex to show you how unimportant sex really is) but now that I've found the guy that I want to be with for the rest of my life, I wish that I had been with him for my first time.
ReplyDeleteWhat year are we living in? You're overrating virginity. Embrace sex.
ReplyDeleteThe only caution there would be how serious she is about it - I strongly think it will mean something to her regardless of her saying it's meaningless. So it really is up to you whether or not you can deal with that.
DeleteYou've grown close to her and you find her attractive? And she wants to FUCK you?
ReplyDeleteAsk her out you pussy, make it meaningful.
DINGDINGDING
DeleteWe have a winner. It's not like you have anything to lose.
Give me her number. I'll be the man she needs inside her.
ReplyDeletewhere the hell were these chicks. why couldn't this be me.
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure this is made up, don't worry. It's like your friends hot mom who f**ks you when he's late coming home, or the MILF who picks you up when you are walking home alone and spends an evening riding you like a sybian. They don't really exist.
DeleteI used to care about my first time and was saving myself for someone special... But then someone stole that from me and now I don't give a fuck.
ReplyDelete"Normally I wouldn't stop and think, as a dude I'm always game" is a standard assumption we all grow up with. Maybe we should question it, look at what other factors besides your fictitious intrinsic horndoggery influence your behaviour. The fact that you didn't jump immediately should be evidence of this.
ReplyDeleteSex is great, but if can fuck people up and not in the good way. Good on you for showing restraint.