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Updated on Monday, February 2

#20455

OMG: This girl talks to me 24/7 for a few weeks and tells me everything about her life and I start to like her so I tell her. Turns out she just thinks of me as a friend. I am tired of this happening to me again and again. Phew... I am not a teddy bear women.

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  1. "This guy I talk to 24/7 is so nice, always listening to me and being so friendly and helping me through my problems, but then he tells me he has feelings for me. Ugh, why can't guys just be friends and not think of me as a piece of meat"

    I know it lacks lots of details, but see it from her perspective too man. You started off as friends and there shouldn't be any expectation for it to advance further. I've been in the same situation as you, and I have just realized that it never really works out. You need to just make your intentions clear from the beginning.

    You may feel like she has led you on in thinking a relationship could come of it, but she probably feels like she's been led on too.

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    1. M'friendzoned *tip*

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    2. I actually did not like her in the beginning. Just met her at a cousin's wedding and started talking to her after the wedding and realized damn, we are really similar and I started liking her as time went by.

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  2. Aww, that sucks. I can relate.

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  3. I can relate too. Question - has anyone ever had a situation like this turn into a relationship? I know ppl say the friendzone is the pit of death and there is no out, but is that actually true?

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  4. > omg this girl liked talked to me and did friend things but she doesn't want to fuck me wtf

    Get over yourself. Just because you talked to a girl doesn't mean you're entitled to sleep with her.

    > I actually did not like her in the beginning.

    Nice attempt at an ego save there. No wonder she's not into you, you sound like an ass -.-

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    1. I can't believe you just wrote that. You must be one of those guys whose only relationship has been with porn.

      I did not ever use the word "entitled" and all I am saying is I felt that we had a connection.

      Another tip: You don't always have to like a person in the beginning, sometimes you fall for the their personality and how awesome they are.

      Now stop watching internet porn and make good use of BOTH your heads.

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  5. So, someone talks to you a lot and tells you about their life. You're tired of having friends? Seriously wtf, because you're nice to a girl and like her, doesn't mean she likes you as more than a friend back and that's something that's so awful. Everyone has people that only like them as a friend. Be an adult and get over it...

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  6. A woman talks to you, therefore she needs to start dating you?

    Maybe once you start treating women like people and not like some mysterious enigmatic puzzle that you need to solve to get them to like you, they might actually starting liking you for who you are, and maybe even date you.

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  7. I had that shit happen to me once Her 'I just want to be friends', Me 'If I wanted a friend, I'd get a fuckin' dog.' Delivering that line...I've never been happier.

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  8. dont be a fucking beta then....

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  9. Make your intentions clear from the start. If it doesn't work move on. There is no benefit to a man in befriending a woman. In fact I have seen girls who i have tried to fuck and failed doing so respect me more.

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  10. Women are not entitled to fuck you just because you took some time to talk to them like a human being instead of a conquest.

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