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Updated on Saturday, October 25

#19982

OMG: Here I am in the same spot I was last February. Heartbroken. I've been heartbroken more times than I should be.. I hate this feeling , my heart hurts. Maybe I'm too nice/ naive and need to change. I don't know. All I know is that this is a part of life.. A chance to experience true love so I can't give up

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  1. Everyone goes through heartbreak, it's a part of life and a part of living and learning. I know that sounds extremely cheesy but when it comes to matters of the heart, everyone is "the victim". When you get involved with someone it's either going to end in heartbreak (for you or them) or it's not going to end. This isn't a reason to give up on finding someone but if you look at yourself like this victim of love then stop. Everyone is, some are more than others but that's part of it. It's up to you to decide who is worth risking the heartache for.

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    1. to summarize: dont be a little bitch

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  2. A similar sentiment to something I wrote in another post...

    Don't worry OP, eventually you'll find "true love". You will invest your heart in a reciprocal romantic relationship for years only to have it mercilessly ripped from your chest. Chin up and know there is a better, deeper more awesome love out there to disappoint you.

    There is risk with every relationship.
    Go to therapy to figure out if you have a pattern.
    I know it's really difficult but if your heart gets bruised easily try to put off jumping in bed. Chemistry does not equal compatibility.

    You'll get over this... eventually.

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  3. Guard your heart. Put more of yourself into your friendships. Let love happen on its own time. (I can't say this has brought anyone my way in the last 4 years, but it's helped avoid heart ache and focus on other meaningful areas of my life: health, grades, friendships...you get the idea). yours sincerely -Dorky Dude

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    1. Dear dorky dude, I've also been doing this but at times I'm quite lonely even though I'm engaged in so many ways. How have you managed four years of this? Do you sometimes still date? Do you think your age or stage in life makes it easier?
      - Geeky Girl.

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    2. ^ p.s. I am not OP

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