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#19390

OMG: I feel like years of almost daily porn (especially bdsm) and no contact with women has really messed me up.

18 comments

  1. I'm in the same boat. Hooray!

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  2. then get some contact with women if it bothers you so

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    1. Lol Waterloo Engineering brah...I'd rather not see 115 males get in contact with 2/5 girls who actually look like females.

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    2. Well "brah" you could always talk to girls OUTSIDE of engineering. Why would you want to date someone in your class anyway? You're just asking for awkwardness when it all goes to shit

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  3. I'm sure it's not as bad as you think it is but talk to someone who can help if you think it's an actual issue.

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    1. If I could talk to people then I wouldn't be messed up

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    2. I meant like a counsellor....

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    3. 3.b I know you meant a counselor. People like me (SA) have difficulty speaking to counselors - as do many people.

      3.c ?

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  4. Man i don;t know if you are joking or not, but this is a serious problem. Porn industry puts these images in our head from the time we are 12-13, so much so this shit gets ingrained in our brain.

    Just stop watching porn man. Be sexually active instead. I know its easier said than done, but when i stopped watching porn all together, I was so much more determined to find girls. And it worked

    If all else fails, jerk off without porn.

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    1. Or if you have a brain you'll realize that porn does not equal real life.

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  5. This might be worth listening to. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbhqAuZen7o&list=PL3C69557844A5FB21
    I felt so messed up with my porn addiction and I wanted a change. It's hard to to break free but it's not impossible. It's been about a year since the last time I looked at porn and I've never felt so happy and free.

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  6. tie me up and spank me silly

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  7. Alright guys, thanks for the input. I have decided to stop viewing porn or reading erotica (what I usually do) for at least the next month. Will just use my imagination.

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  8. reddit.com/r/nofap and reddit.com/r/pornfree
    check it out. Think about the person you want to be 5 or 10 yrs from now. Hope that helps :)

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    1. /r/NoFap is terrible. Most of those people need actual counselling, not just to stop fapping... /r/PornFree is much healthier, in my opinion.

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  9. Let me tell you by experience that years of porn everyday along with fucking once or twice a day still messes you up.

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  10. Watching porn is totally normal, you just need to realize that it's meant for entertainment, and isn't a good comparison to real life. If you just talk to your partner about what is/is not acceptable then you shouldn't have any problems.

    Myself, and most of my guy friends watch porn several times a week and we all have loving relationships with our girlfriends.

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