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OMG: Generally speaking, do asian guys like white girls?

I've noticed a trend of asian girls with white guys, but not vice versa... Is there a reason for this?

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  1. > Generally speaking, do asian guys like white girls?
    With few exceptions, I'd say yes. Even my fobbiest friends find white girls attractive, even though they might not date one.

    > Is there a reason for this?
    -There are both positive and negative stereotypes in western media about Asians men but both aren't "datable" qualities.
    - When they are portrayed in the media, Asian men are rarely portrayed in a "sexually attractive" nature.
    - Asians have this presumption that it is easier for them to date Asian women because they know that Asian women will be comfortable being hit on by them.
    - Asian men may have this insecurity and fear that they are being judged by these stereotypes. With Asian women, its different because they may not have these presumptions and if they do, Asian men aren't as afraid of being judged by Asian women.

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    1. YMMV.

      Not all white girls are attractive, and if they are it isn't necessarily only because they're white.

      While media influences can certainly have an effect, they're definitely not the only thing that influences something like this. I draw major issues with your final two points.

      Fear of judgment and stereotypes? Sure, maybe that is a primary reason for some. But there are also reasons that come down to differences in interest and compatibility, just like any relationship between any individuals.

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    2. as someone who wasn't born here, i find that there's just not that much in common to talk about with white girls

      i find them attractive and generally go for them, but it always fizzles

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    3. That's because there's a negligible amount of white girls compared to asian girls

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    4. @1.c Not really.

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  2. asian guys just need to show the girls and i mean any girl, their car keys and they will hop on their dick any day. I WISH for just one day, i had the opportunity to drive in a nisssan gtr and wipe all the audi, beemer, benz owners smile off their face.

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    1. Supreme gentreman reporting in

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    2. Supreme gentreman reporting in

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    3. Lol and no brown or asian girl would do the same in your eyes? Please, you sound butthurt.

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    4. ^he said "I mean any girl"...he may be a dick but still

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  3. Hi, OP here. Thank you for offering some insight. As a european girl interested in asian guys (and as a girl who is really turned off by muscles, facial/body hair, deep voices, etc. - essentially, I'm into effeminate east asian men), I was worried that I wouldn't be found desirable by asian guys (particularly fobs, who would perhaps write me off as lazy/dumb/bad with money/promiscuous/all those stereotypes people associate with white girls). I'm often approached by white guys, but rarely asian guys... However, I've heard that there are many asian guys at UW... I'm looking forward to starting school there in September ;) I'm hoping some of them are effeminate! From my experience though, most of them tend to be quite shy. I guess I'll be the one doing the approaching

    Once again, thank you for the insight 1, and 1.b. And 2... I can't speak on behalf of all women, but I can assure you that my female friends and I really don't care what you drive. But then again, perhaps the ladies you are into are materialistic. In that case, best of luck. Those kinds of girls are never satisfied.

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    1. Just curious, what gives you this preference for effeminate men?

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    2. OP@3.a: When you're surrounded by tall, over-confident, muscular, european boys with hairy arms and legs and booming voices all your life, you can only yearn for the shy, soft-spoken, awkward femboy types... idk. The whole "macho guy" thing gets old real fast. At the end of the day though, it's simply a personal preference.

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    3. not sure if srs

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    4. All of OPs language suggests she doesn't like this type of guy... especially calling them "femboys".....

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    5. So basically you like men who are women. I can't understand how such wimpy Asian dudes get the best Asian chicks

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    6. To everyone replying to 3.. I think this is just shitty satire

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  4. For me, I like white girls. There are a lot of international students from Asia who are only interested in asian girls. However, those who have been here for a long time can get on well with white girls.

    Generally, white girls prefer masculine boys, so you don't see many asian boy white girl relationships. I am glad you find we are more appealing than white boys.

    As a suggestion, we like white girls because of the way they are: the strength, personality, independence, etc. So be yourself.

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    1. Don't most girls (with the exception of lesbians) like masculine men?

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    2. 4 here
      yes that's right. that's why you find why there are so many asian girls marrying white guys, and not vice versa.

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  5. errybody fucks errybody

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  6. I'm willing to bet OP will get tired of the shy, effeminate type as soon as she gets into a relationship with one. Generally speaking, white girls who have this view of Asian men get their ideas from either anime or K-pop. Real life doesn't work like either of those things.

    Although the fact that she uses the term "femboy" makes her sound like a dom, so maybe she knows what she wants...

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    1. Generally speaking, asian men are more shy, caring and thus feminine. This is not from anime. This happens every day in real life.

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    2. @6a: Would you mind sharing how you came to these generalizations? Those traits sound completely wrong to me, an Asian female who's interacted with many Asian males throughout her life.

      Asian males are self-centered, having been babied by their parents who, more likely than not if they're Chinese, perhaps have only one child. Most of them have no idea how to care for another person, and their idea of "dating" is based off scenes in Asian dramas. These generalizations I'm making apply to mostly FOBs or first-generation Asian immigrants.

      As for shy, I'll give you that. Asian guys do seem more timid, but those are not the ones you'd want to date. Bluntly put, they're the "nerdy" ones, don't dress well, and have no idea how to talk to girls. That's just due to lifestyle though, since guys of other ethnicities have similar personalities if they're into the same interests.

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    3. 6a here: Maybe I am wrong. OK. For me, we are very emotionally sensitive. I don't wanna hurt other girls' feelings and I will compromise a little bit. FOBs seem to be more self-centred. Yes. That's true.

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  7. I'm a white girl who's been dating a Chinese guy for a long time.. He's just like any other guy but I guess I did have to be a little more forward and make the first move. The Asian girl/ white guy combo is old and a lot of them only seem to date each other because of their race which is fairly shallow. Other of the less common interracial couples I know seem happier since their relationship is probably more genuine, being based on more solid values than race alone.

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    1. >My interracial pairing is uncommon so we must be speshul snowflakes. Everyone else is dating each other because they're fetishists.

      Get your head out of your ass. I don't even understand how you went from "[the] combo is old" to "date each other because of their race". Where/how would you even verify that?

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    2. 7 confirmed racist

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    3. 7a stop the nonsense.
      7 Wish your relationship happy ever after

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  8. Girls will like guys, and guys will like girls. End of story.

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    1. Sometimes guys like guys and girls like girls. That is cool too,

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    2. And sometimes there are people who aren't sure what gender they fit into, so lets just say people will like people.

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    3. whoa some of us aren't people and identify more with wolves
      stop perpetuating discrimination 8.b

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  9. My partner and I have been together for quite a while, he's Chinese and I'm White.

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  10. All the people in this thread will burn in hell.

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    1. everyone in this thread will be kidnapped by Santa

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    2. stop stupid comments

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    3. stop stupid replies

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  11. Who cares! I'm a white girl dating an asian guy and I couldn't be happier. It may surprise a lot of people, but that's their problem.

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  12. I noticed that quite a number of my Asian guy friends who migrated here in their mid to late teens have a pretty strong accent when they speak English. Perhaps the accent drives white girls away? My Asian girl friends from a similar background, speak with less accent. Perhaps white guys have a higher tolerance level for accents?

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  13. This is like the stupidest thread ever. Get out more you shallow minded people.

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