What does this mean?
I think most couples become best friends with each other if they've been together long enough.
What were the circumstances OP?
OP failed the ELPE
I think a relationship with a significant other should be just as difficult if not more difficult to replace than a friendship. You're doing it wrong OP.
i know how you feel, i miss my best friend so much
Been in the same situation OP. Have you tried contacting her? Telling her you still care about her? The worst outcome is that you find out she doesn't care as much as you thought she did. Then try to move on.
i can't tell if this is about me or not
I lost my best friend too. We dated for years, but were best friends for a year or so first.A year later, many hours spent with a psych, about 4000 anti-depressants, and a string of shitty one-night-stands/ emotionless encounters, I'm not okay.You aren't alone. For whatever that is worth to you :(- Goosey
Damn people, get over it. Go pick up some hobbies again.
^ shit-yeah. Got some issues? Tell it to fucking Sigmund Freud. Start living!
@8 if you don't know if it's about you or not then why don't you contact them to see if it is?
I'm pretty sure OP meant that she and her best friend stopped being friends, not that she was dating her best friend.
^ If that's what the OP meant, then s/he (probably she) couldn't have phrased that more terribly.
@10 - hobbies, work, friends, family, fun, etc etc etc - got it all. Doesn't make up for what I don't. Try some humility?- Goose
it sounds to me it's about op losing the friendship of a best friend. been there too op, haven't spoken to my bestie for almost a year. people just change sometimes no matter how shitty the circumstances were. Keep your head up!
Goose, you're alive?
@17 - I am. I am. My mustache is much thicker though.- Gooseman