Obviously he's never forgiven himself for not dumping your ass like a self-respecting person would. Although this is UW, where female attention can be hard to come by for many guys.
When I used to be a squirrel...
Number 1 is awesome.And that's your fault. You should be amazed you still have a boyfriend, bitch.
She's a whore and he's a pussy. She regrets it and he hates himself. I'm not making fun of OP I just think it's a lose-lose situation. You should probably break up and try to pure love somewhere untainted.
Slipping in the first week IS a little extreme....
good ... cheaters are terrible people and you don't deserve to be happy!
He doesn't trust you and I can't say I blame him.
haha you cheated on him and you blame for bringing it up? what a fail. Actually wait, the boyfriend is an idiot too. It doesn't matter if it was the first week, I would've dumped your ass the explosive shit I'm gonna take as soon as I get out of bed.
^^ lol, comment fail, but seriously, what are you complaining about? You should be thankful that he still kept you around.
You should have known better, but hopefully for 2 years you have now. He has to accept that. If he can't, then you two can't work, but it could be that you have to talk to him about how to solidify that confidence so you can finally leave it in the past, as he might be bringing it up due to continued insecurity. I've been there, not fun, but as hard as it was to end a four year relationship, it was the right thing to do, and I am much happier now for it.
I love all the people on here who've obviously never been in love with two people or had someone else who wanted them. Please try it one time before you get on your high-horse and ride it into the sunset.OP: If he's harboring resentment then its time to talk it out. If its just a thing you have between you it may actualy make you stronger. Wierd as that sounds.Everyone from the "Cheaters are evil", "Weed smokers should die", "Shoplifters are the devil": Realize that not everyone is in the same place as you and that life throws shit at you sometimes. Living with yourself is the most you can hope for sometimes.
^ if you truly love someone .... you shouldn't be in love with someone else. I have had people that have wanted me before, but in the end I am in a relationship and they aren't worth fucking that up for.
sometimes the thought of what happened runs through my head, and I can't get it out
@14 - I know the feeling. No matter how hard you want to get over it ... you just can't. If you figure out the way to stop thinking about it and getting rid of it let me know.